Devastated

am sooo sorry hun, what an awful thing to go through..I know when we were pregnant with bon we had to have an amnio as she was high risk downs and spina bifida, being in cyprus we had to wait nearly 5 weeks for the results which was hell in itself..tourturing ourselves over what the results would be..knowing what we would do with each outcome...so as much as i cannot even guess how you are feeling, i have had a very slight look into what you must be going to and that hurt like hell....so i am really sending my most sincere compasion....i am sorry if i have worded this wrong, i am not very good at these things. my heart goes out to you, your dh and other family members too. xxx

I'm so sorry and saddened to hear this news Beccy. You and DH look after each other - I think you are incredibly brave. N xxxx

Nothing to add other than am thinking of you and big hugs xxx

Same for me, I have nothing that I couldf possibly say to advise etc, but this is such sad news :( I can't begin to imagine what you're going through. I hope you get the help and support you need. Lots of love to you and your DH xxxx

Beccy I'm so sorry. No words are enough but just wanted to know that I'm thinking of you and your DH. Rachie xxx

Thanks to everyone who has replied, we have an appointment in six weeks to check how we are getting on, and also to go through the genetic counselling and post mortem results. They have given us the details of a charity who deals with this kind of thing as well. The hospital staff have been excellent, i cannot fault them at all and even feel as strongly as sending them a letter to say so. I guess i am in a weird place at the moment, grieving for what we have lost, and terrified about the future. Dh and I are and always have been solid though, we are holding on to each other very tightly at the moment. Thanks for letting me talk on here though, it feels like stage one. Although family and friends know what has happened, i am still not ready to face people or speak to people. So being open on here really helps. Thanks Beccy

Becky, I can't begin to know what you are going through. I can only say that I'm thinking of you and your DH. Wishing you strength to move through this difficult time. Look after yourself. Katharine x

Beccy, I am so sorry that you have had to go through this. :bighug:

Oh Beccy, I am so sorry to hear this, what an awful situation to find yourselves in. Huge hugs for you and your DH. I can't offer any other words of wisdom I'm afraid except to hold onto the fact that you made the right decision for you and take comfort in that. Thinking of you xxx

oh beccy, I'm so sorry, what a hard decision to have to make. My thoughts are with you and your DH Cx

Oh Beccy, I am so sorry to hear this, what a horrible thing you have to go through. Keep looking after yourself and DH. Thinking of you both. Elaine.

Beccy I'm so sorry to hear your news. You must be devastated My thoughts are with you and your partner Holly xx

huge Hugs Beccy I dont know what to say other than my thoughts are with you and DH at such an awful time .. hugs xx

Beccy, I'm truely sorry to hear this. I have no idea what you must be experiencing right now. Just want to let you know We're thinking of you and hope you can get the support you need in this traumatic time. LIfe is so unfair to cheat you in this way. We are all here for you if/when you need us. xXx :big hug:

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