Devastated

Beccy, I'm so sorry to hear your heart-rending news. Nothing will make it any better but time will make it less painful. You've suffered an awful loss and it doesn't matter how or why. You feel free to chat, scream, rant and rage on here if that helps you in any way to grieve properly. Everyone here is so nice and they helped me through my mc. I'm so so sorry. Sending you much love, hugs and sympathy. Take it easy and take good care of yourself. xxxxx

So sorry for your lose. Life can be so incredibly heartbreakingly hard and unfair at times. My thoughts are with you and your DH.

Hi there, I was going to post a really "feeling sorry for myself" post today. Then i saw your post and it made me realise that what i'm feeling is rather pathetic compared to the pain and anguish that you and your DH must be going through right now. I do not have any personal experience of anything similar but i do know someone who went through exactly the same experience with their first baby. She had to terminate at 22 weeks...... since then though they have had 2 healthy pregnancies and are now the proud mum and dad of a gorgeous daughter and son. So sorry to read your news, Take care, LisaB xx

Beccy, I cannot believe i have read this - i am totally devastated for you. I know how much you wanted this baby and so i can imagine that you have had to make the hardest, most traumatic decision you will ever have to make. I wouldn't know where to begin with the healing process, but if there is anything i can do to help you then please pm me. Please don't feel like you have to go through this on your own, i know sometimes it's hard to talk to friends and family but you ALWAYS have us here for you and sometimes just writing the way you feel down helps. All my prayers and thoughts are with you and you WILL get through this, somehow. Take care of yourself and your dh. I truely am so sorry that this has happened. xx

Beccy, I'm pleased that you feel comfortable to talk things through with us on here - your friends. We'll be here every step of the way, and for as long as you need us - if you need anything at all from me, just shout ok. I wish you nothing but the very best for the future - it will seem hopeless and stressful right now, but one day, the pain will ease and you will start to move forward as a couple - have faith and be strong honey. Be angry, cry - we'll always be here to "listen" ok. Hugest of hugs xxx

I have been there, Sorry I didnt see this yesterday I will PM you Stella

I am so sorry to read of your sad loss Becky. I cannot offer any advice and also cannot begin to imagine what you must be going through but I wanted to let you know that I'll be thinking of you and hoping you and your DH can stay strong through the hardest times and can move on to happier times when you are ready. Lilistar xx

Beccy, So sorry to read about your devastating news. I've been thinking about you today and sending you big hugs. xxxxxx dolly x ds x 4

Beccy, so sorry to have read this. I have no real words of advise as I really cannot imagine how you are feeling right now. After thinking all was ok and getting past 12 weeks , you must be devastated. Lots of love and hugs to you and your DH and I hope you are there for each other to cry with and talk with. May your suffering be short xxxxx

Beccy, I am so sorry to read this. Am thinking of you both xx

So sorry to hear this I am thinking of you and your dh x

Oh Beccy, I am completely shocked and saddened to hear what has happened, my heart goes out to you and your DH, look after each other. Take Care xx

Beccy I am so sorry. That is truly awful news and i cannot begin to understand what you must be going through. Take care and remember we are all here if you need to chat/vent xxx

Gosh Beccy, I'm so sad to read this. Just to post your message and let us all know took a huge amount of courage. Give yourself all the time you need to recover and do keep coming back here for support whenever you need it. Thinking of you x

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